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Happy, Confident And Cooperative Kids... Without The Drama

Transform your child's behavior and start enjoying family time
with my proven, no-yelling blueprint for a calmer home.

Start Your Total Parenting Transformation
 
 

Happy, Confident And Cooperative Kids... Without The Drama

Transform your child's behavior and start enjoying family time with my proven, no-yelling blueprint for a calmer home.

Start Your Total Parenting Transformation

The Universal Truth of Parenting

When you understand why your children behave the way they do, you'll know what you can do about it - without yelling or intimidation.
 
It took 15 years working with children, adolescents and families before I fully appreciated this universal truth of parenting.
 
You don't have to spend anywhere near as long to benefit from the lessons I've learned across a career working with families inside and outside the clinic.
 
That's because you have Total Parenting Transformation.
 
I created this program when I realised so much 'adult therapy' could have been avoided if a generation of parents understood how to meet their child's greatest needs.
 
But it doesn't need to be that way for the next generation.
 
We now have access to decades of research that conclusively shows what we need to do to avoid 'screwing our kids up'.
 
You have the power to break the cycle and become a good ancestor by leaving a legacy based on kindness and understanding, not intimidation and fear.
 
And you won't be alone on your journey. You'll have the advantage of a parenting expert in your pocket to guide you on your new path.
 
Total Parenting Transformation is the last and ONLY parenting program you'll need for building a loving connection with your children and becoming the 'good ancestor' you wish you had as a child.

What's Inside?

Dive in to the easy-to-understand modules and master the new way of parenting using evidence-based methods. More than 24hrs of powerful content to transform every aspect of your child's mental health and emotional wellbeing (as well as your parenting experience).

 

Integrate and consolidate your learnings by completing the program's worksheets and journal templates at your own pace. Feel confident as you implement all the new strategies in a structured way that gets results.
 
Click HERE for a foundational sample, the Temperament Chart.
Join our bi-weekly, LIVE Q&A calls to have your questions answered directly by Heidi (or listen to the replay if you can't make it).
 
Want to hear what one of these calls is like?
 
Click HERE to listen in on a recent question (and answer) around parental rage.

You'll be supported every step of the way by not only Heidi, but other Total Parenting Transformation members in your exclusive Facebook community. 

 

 

Fit the course around YOUR daily routine with our iOS and Android apps. Listen in the car, during meal prep or while you're clearing the latest Lego creation from the middle of the hallway. Wherever you go, Total Parenting Transformation is with you!

 

If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don't see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we'll refund you. Just send us an email in your first 30 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!

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Watch: Total Parenting Transformation Program Walkthrough

                                                                   

Watch: Total Parenting Transformation Program Walkthrough

 

Why You Need A Different Approach To Parenting

There are so many online parenting courses, YouTube videos and books out there - it can be hard to choose the right one for your family (let alone find one you'll implement long-term).

Here are 6 reasons why Total Parenting Transformation is the best investment you'll make in your family this year:

1. Insane Value

When you join Total Parenting Transformation with this special offer, you'll receive access to Heidi's signature course - at 33% off the 'general public' rate.

2. No Fluff 

You're not getting a membership packed with a huge, overwhelming list of things you'll never use. Instead, you'll have concise, powerful and evidence-backed tools and concepts you can start using immediately to create a happier home - whatever that looks like for you.
 

3. Structured Learning 

Total Parenting Transformation is a 'hand-holding', supportive program that keeps you on track and helps you build your learning on a step-by-step path - created by an experienced clinical psychotherapist who knows what works to improve connection, end power struggles and manage intense emotions.
 

4. Built On Clinical Experience 

Heidi is a mother of two and a qualified clinical psychotherapist who has focused on anxiety and trauma-related issues with adults and children across her 20-year career. This means the content you'll study is informed by a dual perspective - that of the parent AND the child, providing solutions to common challenges they each face in a family context.
 

5. Access To Heidi 

When you become a Total Parenting Transformation student, you'll receive an email with details of how to register for your first live Q&A calls. These sessions help you tweak your new parenting approach in real time and receive the support you need to actually implement your learnings. Many students also enjoy the community feel and accountability these calls provide (if you choose to use them that way).
 

6. No Overwhelm 

Begin applying new strategies and tactics at a speed that suits you, following a proven, step-by-step process. No stressing about what to watch next, or how different concepts relate to each other. It's all laid out for you to study at your own pace! 
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Proven Strategies. Real Life Results.

See the transformations our students have made

 

                                                                         

Here's what you'll get when you join...

One-Time Payment

$1997 USD

Normally $2997 USD!

  • Instant access to Heidi's Signature Parenting Course
    Value: $2,997 USD
  • One extra login (FREE!) to share with family or a friend to join you in your Total Parenting Transformation
    Value: $2997 USD     
  • Bi-Weekly Q&A Calls With Heidi For 10 Weeks UNTIL THE END OF 2022. Listen to a sample HERE
    Value: $5720 USD
  • Massive library of searchable Q&A video call recordings
    Value: $2497 USD
  • Access to masterclass and webinar back catalog
    Value: $397 USD
  • Access to the online Dads Group until the end of 2022
    Value: $377 USD
  • Access to SPICY Parents Club until the end of 2022
    Value: $377 USD
  • 40+ worksheets, slides and 'done-for-you' cheat sheets. Download a sample (the Temperament Chart) HERE.
    Value: $880 USD
  • Access to Facebook community of likeminded parents
    Value: $397 USD
  • Access To Our iOS and Android apps
  • TOTAL VALUE: $16,639 USD
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12 Monthly Payments

$197 USD /mo

  

  • Instant access to Heidi's Signature Parenting Course
    Value: $2,997 USD
  • Bi-Weekly Q&A Calls With Heidi For 10 Weeks. Listen to a sample HERE.
    Value: $2860 USD
  • Massive library of searchable Q&A video call recordings
    Value: $2497 USD
  • Back catalog of parenting webinars and masterclasses
    Value: $397 USD
  • 40+ worksheets, slides and 'done-for-you' cheat sheets. Download a sample (the Temperament Chart) HERE.
    Value: $880 USD
  • Access to Facebook community of likeminded parents
    Value: $397 USD
  • Access To Our iOS and Android apps
  • TOTAL VALUE: $10,028 USD
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100% 30-DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don't see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we'll refund you.
 
Just send us an email in your first 30 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!

What's Inside The Video Program?

Week 1 - A New Way Of Parenting

Kick-start your Total Parenting Transformation with the foundational concepts we'll be applying throughout the courseThis week, we prepare for a mindset shift by unpacking specific modules on:

  • The Old Way of Parenting v The New Way of Parenting
  • How We Change Behavior
  • How Kids Learn
  • The Buckets (AKA: Your Child's Two Greatest Fears)
  • How You Were Parented
  • Shame and Vulnerability
Week 2 - How We're Wired
 
This game-changing week unpacks how the brain works - and why - to provide an insight into your child's behavior that will explain A LOT. 
  • Temperament Traits - How far do genetics explain our mental health and psychological traits? And what does this mean for us parents when we communicate with our children?
  • Polyvagal Theory - How your child's automatic nervous system response impacts their ability to learn, and how you can create a safe environment for learning.
  • M.O.V.E.S. - The only acronym you'll need in the world of connection! The M.O.V.E.S technique is a simple, step-by-step script, and it's my go-to when trying to communicate with others - whether that's your children, partner, family, friends, or an even irate client!
Week 2 - How We're Wired
 
This game-changing week unpacks how the brain works - and why - to provide an insight into your child's behavior that will explain A LOT. 
  • Temperament Traits - How far do genetics explain our mental health and psychological traits? And what does this mean for us parents when we communicate with our children?
  • Polyvagal Theory - How your child's automatic nervous system response impacts their ability to learn, and how you can create a safe environment for learning.
  • M.O.V.E.S. - The only acronym you'll need in the world of connection! The M.O.V.E.S technique is a simple, step-by-step script, and it's my go-to when trying to communicate with others - whether that's your children, partner, family, friends, or an even irate client!
Week 3 - Understanding Our Emotions
 
Dive deep into emotional literacy, how it's developed and why it's so important for parents to regulate (as well as our children!). 
  • Emotional Maps - What does the map your parents gave you look like? Does it match the one you'd choose to work with today? Review and develop your emotional map this week.
  • Emotional Regulation in Adults - "I hate it when I yell, but I don't know what else to do!" ... Learn why it can be so hard to regulate your emotions, and how to retrain your brain to stay calm and yell less.
  • Emotional Regulation in Kids - Little people ... big feelings. Make sense of the emotional storms your children encounter AND get the practical tools and scripts to navigate their meltdowns.
Week 4 - Anger
 
Why does your child have massive meltdowns, or rage around their room like a volatile volcano? Dive in to learn all about anger and how to help them calm the fire within. BONUS - get an insight into your OWN anger and how to manage it effectively. 
  • Introduction to Anger - Build a solid understanding of anger's origin, how to treat it, and practical strategies you can immediately implement with your family.
  • Anger and Its Two BFFs - Which emotions does anger like to hang out with? Learn what they are and help your kids spot the anger warning signs before they spiral out of control.
  • Effectively Managing Anger - Uncover a series of practical methods to manage and understand your child's anger.
Week 4 - Anger
 
Why does your child have massive meltdowns, or rage around their room like a volatile volcano? Dive in to learn all about anger and how to help them calm the fire within. BONUS - get an insight into your OWN anger and how to manage it effectively. 
  • Introduction to Anger - Build a solid understanding of anger's origin, how to treat it, and practical strategies you can immediately implement with your family.
  • Anger and Its Two BFFs - Which emotions does anger like to hang out with? Learn what they are and help your kids spot the anger warning signs before they spiral out of control.
  • Effectively Managing Anger - Uncover a series of practical methods to manage and understand your child's anger.
Week 5 - Connection
 
Your ability to connect with your children - or not - is at the heart of the parent-child relationship. 
  • Connection 101 - Learn what connection really means, and why it's so vital in the relationship with our children.
  • Practical Strategies To Build Connection - Arm yourself with the tools, techniques and word-for-word scripts used to build connection by thousands of parents around the world.
  • Connection - Advanced. Get your connection-building PhD right here!
  • Teens & Tech - Unpack my favourite, proven strategies to connect with teens and explore what it is they feel their parents are doing right.
  • Becoming a Language Translator - Understand the languages everyone is speaking in your home. This can be a profound experience as you begin to see everyone is communicating in their own unique way.
Week 6 - Discipline Without Damaging Self-Esteem
 
This week, we'll unpack the helpless feelings that often crop up when you can't control your child, and understand why we tend to gravitate towards wanting to control those situations. 
  • The research on strict parenting - Review the long-term research around strict parenting, and the effects it can have throughout a child's lifetime.
  • Conflict Management - Conflict management ... the ground-zero for most discipline efforts. How do you manage conflict with your children?
  • Setting limits - Discover the three key considerations to take into account BEFORE setting limits with your children.
  • Self-esteem - Why do some people have high - and others have low - self-esteem? This video explores how to build your child's self-esteem for life.
  • Confidence - Learn how confidence is built and maintained in your children.
Week 6 - Discipline Without Damaging Self-Esteem
 
This week, we'll unpack the helpless feelings that often crop up when you can't control your child, and understand why we tend to gravitate towards wanting to control those situations. 
  • The research on strict parenting - Review the long-term research around strict parenting, and the effects it can have throughout a child's lifetime.
  • Conflict Management - Conflict management ... the ground-zero for most discipline efforts. How do you manage conflict with your children?
  • Setting limits - Discover the three key considerations to take into account BEFORE setting limits with your children.
  • Self-esteem - Why do some people have high - and others have low - self-esteem? This video explores how to build your child's self-esteem for life.
  • Confidence - Learn how confidence is built and maintained in your children.
Week 7 - Bringing The Team Together
 
Creating a tight family unit with a unified purpose can be a game-changer for building connection, self-esteem and resilience. Here's how... 
  • Values - Learn why family values are at the core of any family system, review your own personal values, and create ones to apply with your kids!
  • Family Contributions - We look at reframing 'chores' and what they can teach children about confidence and self-esteem by being a team player.
  • Maintaining Routines - Routines are key to providing a sense of safety and security for children. We'll look at how to create them & get buy-in.
  • Family Meetings - Discover how families and parenting gurus use this tool to create a family culture of collaboration and connection.
Week 8 - Sibling Rivalry
 
This powerful week will help you navigate conflict, identify the kind of person you're hoping your children become, and learn how to build sibling relationships so they become friends for life.
  • How to Regulate, Connect, & Coach Siblings in Conflict.
  • Emotion Coaching Our Children.
  • What to Say When Siblings are Fighting.
  • Emotional Intelligence and Negotiation Skills.
  • Reducing Insecurity and Competitiveness.
  • Nurture Bonding and Prevent Future Rivalry.
Week 8 - Sibling Rivalry
 
This powerful week will help you navigate conflict, identify the kind of person you're hoping your children become, and learn how to build sibling relationships so they become friends for life.
  • How to Regulate, Connect, & Coach Siblings in Conflict.
  • Emotion Coaching Our Children.
  • What to Say When Siblings are Fighting.
  • Emotional Intelligence and Negotiation Skills.
  • Reducing Insecurity and Competitiveness.
  • Nurture Bonding and Prevent Future Rivalry.
Week 9 - Managing Anxiety
 
This key week helps you build the skills you need to understand and manage your own anxiety, while empowering your children to understand and manage theirs.
 
We look at the different types of anxiety, how they can impact your life, and how to tackle them: 
  • PAST - Where does anxiety come from? Learn how our upbringing impacts the way we manage our own anxiety.
  • PRESENT - Why do we have anxiety, what does it look like, and what's the relationship between genetics and anxiety?
    FUTURE - What can I do about it? Empower yourself with practical tools and strategies to help your child manage their anxiety.
Week 10 - Body Safety And Protective Behaviors
 
Equip your kids the with information they need to keep their bodies safe. This week will help you teach them protective, preventative behaviors. 
  • What are the types of abuse?
  • Who are the people I should be looking out for?
  • What are the signs of abuse?
  • What is normal/concerning  sexual behavior?
  • Why don't kids disclose sexual abuse?
  • My child disclosed abuse. What should I do? Not do?
  • How do I teach my child how to stay safe?
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What Other Parents Are Saying...

Nicole, Mom of a 5yo

Oh my goodness, in just the past two days since I've started educating myself on how to better deal with my daughter, it has been lif changing!!! I am so incredibly thankful I stumbled on Heidi. I'm so excited to recommend her to any other parents I run into who might need it. So excited to learn more!

Annie, Mom of a 15yo

This is the first time I have found/read/seen anything that actually describes my daughter and the challenges we've had. Everything you present is really helpful so far and it's been great to get some background into why she behaves the way she does. I feel like this was a beacon of light.

Louise, Mom

I've searched online and seen psychologists before, but I have never had someone truly understand my child as Heidi does. We have seen an instant change in our child, she is happier and we are all less stressed! The most amazing change is that she is now talking about her feelings and we grab those opportunities to gently explore. We have shed many happy tears seeing the changes in her.

Mom of a 2.5yo

I felt so lost and defeated because I didn't know how to help my daughter. You helped me gain confidence in knowing that it's ok to let her just be. I don't have to discipline her and the 'keep her in line' mentality, which is of course how I was raised. Anyway, all this is to say thank you!

Emily, Mom of Teens

Absolutely LOVING the course. There is so much amazing gold and it all just makes so much sense to me and is totally in line with how I aspire to parent. Thanks for all you do Heidi, it really is going to change our life, I am certain of it!

Sarah, Mom of Teens

Our relationship with our daughter was around 1 out of 10. Today, we have 9 or 9.5 moments. Heidi's given us everything, really.

Eve, Mom

I just thought I would let you know how transformative of an experience it has already been for me in doing your online course. I’m in week 3 now and really feeling immersed. I find your style of communication so personable and the content has just been mind blowing. I’m so glad that I committed to doing this. Thank you!

Kimberley, Mom of Twins

Now I feel equipped versus just trying to fumble through, which is what every parent does. Heidi has changed my life.

Zoe & Jason, Mom & Dad

There's been so much change in such a short amount of time. You see the changes every. Single. Day.

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FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS


Have a pressing question before joining Total Parenting Transformation?
 
Below is a list of the most common questions we've  been asked. If for some reason you don't see your question, just reach out to our support team at: support [AT] heidirogers.com.au so we can assist you!
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